By Michele Weiner-Davis. It places the marriage at risk of infidelity and of divorce. Another misconception is that sex-starved couples present their sex life as their primary issue when they come into couples therapy. In fact, more often than not, I ask about it in the first session. But when the higher-desire spouse is either directly or indirectly rejected sexually, he or she can shift rapidly into anger. It may be focused on the wet towel on the floor, or the beer in the den, or the tricycle left in the driveway.
30 Ways to Love Your Wife
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Just the thought of having sex makes your head hurt, and maybe your heart as well. Many women in difficult marriages lack a desire for sexual intimacy with their mates. When a wife receives her husband during intercourse, she is, in a sense, allowing herself to be invaded by him —not just physically, but on emotional and spiritual levels, as well. Wives who feel loved and secure can welcome this invasion as an opportunity to experience intense intimacy and pleasure with their husbands. But wives who lack sexual desire or who feel animosity toward their husbands often experience sex as a violation rather than as loving communion. Many women in difficult marriages find sex undesirable. Also know that you can take steps to have a more satisfying and healthy sexual relationship.
The Sex-Starved Marriage
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Here's how. Has your relationship ended up in a sexual desert? Perhaps the two of you went through a rough patch often occasioned by a health scare and stopped making love.