If you don't like oral sex, you're not alone. A lot of women have a hard time relaxing during oral. Below are a few common reasons you might not enjoy oral sex. The good news is, the challenges can be addressed if it's important to you.
Not All Women Like Oral Sex, And This Is Why
Not All Women Like Oral Sex, And This Is Why | Thought Catalog
Over my decade-plus on the dating scene, I carried a terrible secret. Or, at least, it felt like a terrible secret. And yet, I felt just as confused and ashamed as if any of those things had been true. For, you see, I do not enjoy receiving oral sex.
I am a year-old woman who dislikes receiving oral sex. My boyfriend is understanding but I know he feels cheated of part of our sex life — he enjoys it but I just lie there feeling embarrassed and wishing it was over. You do not have to like every aspect of lovemaking, and there are no rules where you have to receive just because he does. Sexual coercion can take many forms, and continuing to ask to give oral sex after you have been clear about your dislike of it is inappropriate at best. But, equally, learning to enjoy it is possible, depending on the exact reasons for your rejection of it.
The other day I strolled into one of my favorite second-hand book stores looking for treasures. I went straight to the sex shelf, the one next to the self-improvement and psychology. I was specifically after books about fellatio, or about oral sex generally, as I was planning to write a blog post as a response to one of my readers.